There are several reasons why we do not pray—disappointed in and disillusioned with God, angry at and bitter toward God, loss of faith and loss of connection with God, etc.  Recently I heard another one that I had never heard of before; it’s from some folks who need medical treatment so cos...

The other day when I got home, I saw Santy kneeling on the side of the bed praying with two other female members of our church.  The women who attend the women’s fellowship are divided into groups of three and each week they pray together over the phone. They’ve done this for quite some tim...

A couple of days ago, a friend in ministry, who is a lot younger than I, died. He and I shared a room together in a retreat several decades ago.  Since then, we kept in contact periodically.  He’s a faithful man of God and gave all his heart and mind to serving Him.  He’s healthy ...

Years ago, a friend in ministry lost her husband in a tragic accident.  Her life was suddenly upended by the loss, and she lost her balance.  She could not stop crying and it was then a pastor who came to see her told her angrily that her excessive grief brought embarrassment to God. ...

I saw something in the news that’s hilarious and tragic at the same time.  In a pop concert, a middle-aged couple hugging each other suddenly under a huge spotlight roaming at random among the audience.  The problem was they were husband and wife; he is somebody else’s husband, and she...

There are many ways to be reminded of our age.  Well, here is one of them: The other day, when Santy and I were at our daughter’s home, one of our grandsons said to me, “Kung Kung, let me read to you.”  Apparently, it was not a request but an order, because he just took […]...

Last Friday we celebrated our adoptive country’s 249th anniversary as an independent nation.  On July 4, 1776, in the City of Brotherly Love, Philadelphia, fifty-six men put their signatures on a piece of document that altered the direction of this country: Independence!  But by putting ...

Last Wednesday in our Bible Study Fellowship we learned about Nicodemus, about his big heart and humility.  It’s that character that enabled him to come to Jesus and to hear what He had to say to him.  Based on that we concluded that spiritual growth cannot be separated from mental and e...

St. Francis Medical Center, in Lynwood, is of course named after St. Francis of Assisi, whose primary calling and mission was to serve the poor. In keeping with the purpose, St. Francis Medical Center has faithfully served the poor Angelinos, not only the model citizens but also the troubled ones. O...

It is not always easy to admit to our mistakes; our natural tendency is to explain away our mistakes and shift the blame to something or someone else. But it is almost equally difficult to be gracefully right. When we are right, we usually demand that others acknowledge it and if they don’t, we ge...